Quotes

It's funny how when you finally get over someone,

you start seeing them in a whole new perspective.

It's like you're looking at them through the eyes

 of your best friend, and you realize, he's nothing special.

He's just another ordinary boy

Because in every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can't sustain you. you have to save yourself knowing all the while it will hurt like hell. because you can't keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return.




You want to be the last person he thinks about before he falls asleep. You want to be his first thought when he wakes up. You want to be the one he texts or calls when he's bored. You want to get hearts from him through text. You want to take cute pictures with him, put them on facebook or myspace and show how happy and cute you are together. You want him to make your ex think: "what the fuck did I do?" you want him to hold you tight, never let go, and never hurt you like the one before him did.

Feelings never do make sense. They get you all confused. Then they drive you around for hours before they drop you right back where you started.


Crying doesn't indicate that you're weak. since birth, it has always been a sign that you're alive.


Here’s to the girls that gave him their whole heart just to have it smashed. The ones who couldn't even talk to their best friends about it because it seemed stupid not to be over him yet. Here's to you.

Of course you're going to get your heart broken. And it isn't just going to happen once, but a lot. That's just part of growing up, and it makes you stronger. Then you can handle it better the next time. You may not get through it yourself, but your friends will help you through it. And you'll be a stronger person because of it. Then, one day, someone will come along, and it'll all pay off, and 

no one will ever break your heart again.

Cracks in the concrete are just reminders:

you fall apart no matter how strong you are.

You know, there are some guys... some guys who'll take a mile when you give them an inch. And then there are the guys who you give 10 billion acres, and they don't fucking move a muscle

I've never even wanted to second guess what we have but you seem to do it everyday. You never know what you want from me, one day I’m perfect and the next I’m below average. Just make up your freaking mind because mine's been the same from the start.

The great thing about being a girl is... even when boys break your heart, you have your girls to relate too. And they're the ones that will really cheer you up and remind you of the happiness you need.

it’s because of you. And she's going to break up with the next guy because ofyou. And the guy after that. She's going to keep doing it because for some reason, you’re the one she's supposed to be with.

Don't say that. Don't say that it didn't mean anything. Listen to me, if you've thought about her everyday or if you memorized her laugh, then at onepoint, she must've meant something to you.


"Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. if you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."

I want to do the same thing you did to me

Lead you on, make you fall and then just let go

you can't let yourself fall for the same shit over and over. you can't allow it to trap you up, and suffocate you until you say what it wants you to say. you can't allow yourself to say yes everytime and fall into its arms. you need to get a grip on yourself because each time you say yes, you know for sure it's going to end up with tears on your side. you know it's a constant cycle, and it's bound to happen again. seriously, get a fucking grip on yourself and walk away when you still can. because it's a monster. it can kill you. love doesn't die, but it will tear you apart

If he misses you, he'll call just to hear your voice. If he wants you, he'll say it. And if he cares, he'll show it. If he has a thought about you, it will come out of his mouth. If you are on his mind non-stop, he will do anything he can just to see you. If he truly likes you, he won't let get anything in the way and fight back just to keep you in his arms. If not, he can't be worth your time because you're obviously not worth his.

I'm scared to move on because I'm worried that the second I'm happy with someone else, you'll pop up and ruin it. Ruin it by telling me that you want me, and that you're sorry, and that you like me 'kinda a lot' and that you miss me 'kinda a lot.' I'm worried that I'll get so confused because I'll be so happy with him, but of course I'll still want you, and that will make me start crying all the time, end up losing the best relationship I ever had, just to have you get bored again and leave again. The worst part about all of this? I can see you doing it, because you want me hooked, you want me as an option, even if it is an option you'll never take.

I guess the real fact of the matter is, we don't know what tomorrow's going to bring and the only thing we really have is right now. So, don't stay mad fortoo long. Learn to forgive. Love with all your heart. Stay up all night. Have fun. Live your life the way you want to live it. Don’t worry about people thatdon't like you. Enjoy the ones who do. Have a crush. Kiss a boy. Just live lifethe way you want and you'll be happy with and don't let anyone tell you you're doing it wrong.

Do you want to know the truth? I'm scared, okay? I'm terrified to get too close to you because I don't want to get my heart broken. I'm afraid that if we take this further, I'm just going to get hurt and to be honest, I don't think I could take that.


What’s the point? I mean, why do I put myself through this? I watched you break my heart and throw the pieces on the floor. And then I picked them up and handed them right back to you. I think that makes me stupid. I mean, seriously, I actually trusted you. And even when you disappointed me, I gave you another chance. That must make me the most foolish person in the world...or maybe that makes me the girl who loves you more than she loves herself.


If you think that the person you love doesn't love you back then you areright.
Because if they do, they would never let you think that way.

At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. it's not like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try. It's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.

Prove to me you're not average and we will be on the same page. The onlydifference I see in guys is that they all got different names.

Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stop of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longerin need of your company.

There’s a guy out there who’s going to be really happy you didn’t get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

Go after her. Fuck, don't sit there and wait for her to call. Go after her because that's what you should do if you love someone. Don't wait for them to give you a sign, 'cause it may never come. 

 There are people I might have loved if they had gotten on the airplane or run down the street after me or called me up drunk at four in the morning because they needed to tell me right now and because they cannot regret this. 

I always thought I'd be the only one doing crazy things for people who would never give enough of a fuck to do it back or act like idiots or be entirely vulnerable and honest. Making someone fall in love with you is easy and flying 3000 miles on four days notice because you can't just sit there and do nothing and breathe into telephones is not everyone's idea of love, but it is the way I can recognize it because that is what I do. Go scream it and be with her in meaningful ways because that is beautiful and that is generous and that is what loving someone really is. That is raw and that is unguarded and all that is really worth anything. Really.

I`ve learned that no matter how much you care, some people don`t deserve you. I`ve learned that it takes years to build up trust & it only takes suspicion, not proof to destroy it. I`ve learned that you shouldn`t compare yourself to others, they are probably more screwed up than you think. I`ve learned that the people you care about in life are taken away from you too soon &; all the less important ones just never go away.

If he likes you, if he really likes you,
you shouldn't have to send more than one text.


i really want to get in his head, and know if it's really over.. because to me,it's not. and i know if he came back right now i'd drop everything, that's so sad to say.. i probably still would, even a year from now, and that's even sadder.. probably would until i found something remotely close to what i had with him.

You don’t want to let people in. It’s hard for you. And once you let those people in, you don’t want to let them go. And when they fuck up, it’s like, why would you do that to me? Like I gave you my feelings, I did everything for you, and you still screwed me over. It’s like you wish they were a better person.

And remember, you’re still young enough to fall in and out of love a few more times before you get it just right. It doesn’t sound fun but trust me; 
it’s worth it every single time.

It’s funny how the less you talk, the more you begin to realize it was not meant to be. It’s funny how slow it began, and how fast it ended. It’s funny how in the beginning he liked you, but in the end he liked someone else. It’s funny how he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.

The greatest revenge to a girl that steals your man is to let her have him, because a truly good man can never be stolen.

I'm the girl who prefers one rose instead of a dozen. I'm the girl who would rather stay in on a Friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I'm the girl who wouldn't make you wait on her hand and foot, but would do anything to make you happy. I'm the girl who would enjoy having a movie night rather than going to some fancy restaurant. I'm the girl who would rather stay up all night sharing secrets than going out and getting drunk. I'm the girl who won't make you hold her bags, but would rather hold your hand instead. I'm the girl who will love you more than anyone could possibly dream of. I'm the girl who would give the world the world to see you smile. I'm the girl who cries herself to sleep at night thinking of you, when I know I'm the last thing on your mind. I'm the girl who feels alone, even in a crowded room. Yeah, I'm that girl.

If there’s anything I’ve learned in this whole getting over you process, it’s that your always going to mean something to me no matter what happens. Your always gonna be somewhere deep down inside me. Even when I’m happily married to the man of my dreams, if I were to run into you on the street and those gorgeous blue eyes were to meet mine, my heart would skip a beat because I’ll never forget you and the way you made me feel when we were young &; stupidly in love.

Your right. I hate letting people in. I hate opening up to them and letting my guard down. But maybe that’s because whenever I decide, “Oh, this boy isn’t gonna break my heart,” they do.

I'm moving on. No more waiting. No more hurt. If you wanted me you could've had me, but you didn't. You blew your chances. Now, I hope you're happy living your lifewondering "What if you took your chances with me?" cause I'm no longer here.  I am no longer waiting.

at some point you have to realize he doesnt care

and you could be missing out on somone who does.

You made your choice, and it wasn't me. So if one day you try to come back and the choice is mine, it won’t be you. Karma hurts, baby

After a while, you learn the difference between holding a hand, and falling in love. You'll learn kisses don't always mean something. Promises can be broken just as easily as they were made, and as hard as it is to believe, sometimes goodbyes are forever

I'm tired of getting my hopes up; I'm tired of hoping this time would be different. I'm tired of falling in and out of love. I'm tired of being played with and playing with peoples hearts. I'm tired of being just friends, and hoping for so much more. I'm tired of it all; I'm tired of being tired.

She wouldn't care if you called her & woke her up just to talk at two in the morning.She loves arguing, & she's good at it. Scary movies make her paranoid. She hates it when people don't call her back. She envies every couple she sees walking aroundshowing their happiness. She only wants to be happy & lately all she thinks about is you.

Don't worry babe, you will see me again.

You'll see me with a guy who treats me right.

One that knows how to love me. 

You'll see all you could have had. n; you'll regret. 

Regret like hell. 

Regret letting me go.

But the thing I want you to see the most? 

You'll see; I survived without you.

Some point, you've got to man up and JUMP.

You've got to quit being scared of the "maybes" and "what-ifs"

And just freaking jump.

Quit cheating yourself out of the best thing that could ever happen to you,

quit cheating him out of what he's wanted for so long, and just falll.

Fall hard, fall long, and fall forever.

Gurkirat: Keep your shit straight have some rules you go by don't disclose them
And if you see him fuckup once bye bye
Man up . Dont be a girl

I think it's time I let you go.

And that's so hard to do because some part of me will be in love with you for the rest of my life.

But the daydreaming, the running in place, it's not healthy.

So this is me, cutting the cord.

This is me doing what I should have done eight months ago:

Saying goodbye.

Don’t worry about me, my hearts not broken anymore.

You should be worrying about yourself, cause as far

as I can see, your still an asshole.